Space …. What is the first word that rings inside when u hear this word —-NASA , planets, universe ….naah naah naah , I have something completely different thing in my mind—- the space between two individuals. I wont say I have seen the whole world but whatever little I have realized —- giving space is the most imp thing in any relationship and this is for all—parents –children, husband –wife, friends, siblings—just name it and as without salt our food wld be tasteless so without space would be our relations.
You just cannot bind anyone to anything. U dnt have to keep announcing that u r in love , love needs to be expressive but we all our separate individuals. We all have our own likings, choices…. adjustments are important but u have to keep the real “u” in life alive…. And I learnt this from my love….
We r quite similar but quite different n the thing about giving space comes in areas where we differ… he loves nonfiction n I am hooked to fiction…. We respect this never coomenting on each others choice, he is into classical music n I into light music, but we hear both , at times he is occupied for days n if u have just wait patiently but this is it….there r so many things when u have to leave him on his own —let him do things his own way – let him spend time with himself —- just because he loves u he is not supposed to spend every moment of his life wth u…. he need not give u a certificate every time to tell u yes he loves u…..he is there always there—- just give him some space n see ……..