Now , I don’t want my heading to be taken wrongly …its just that after 22 years of marriage …one gets maybe too comfortable …too used to each other .
Mine was an arranged marriage …and I still very very vividly remember the day Suyash came to meet me (see me 
) …well that was how things happened in those days . I was absolutely floored …he made me completely at ease …though a super shy person …with him even in the first meeting (it may sound filmy) it felt we knew each other …could connect so well …could talk endlessly …to cut the long story short …it was love at first sight .
) …well that was how things happened in those days . I was absolutely floored …he made me completely at ease …though a super shy person …with him even in the first meeting (it may sound filmy) it felt we knew each other …could connect so well …could talk endlessly …to cut the long story short …it was love at first sight .Our marriage happened 11 months after that …and we talked every single day…that too endlessly …the Kolkata – Faridabad STD rates did not matter …oh how much we shared …chit chat chit chat continuously…never had moments when we had nothing to say.
Fast forward to 22 years …2 adorab;e kids …a roller coaster ride …but always ready for everything with we being “us” and not “i” and “me”. Ups and downs are part of life …ups times are for sure good times but for me down times are what bring you much much closer …and recently we faced a kind of , if I can put it correctly….a small challenge.
I suffered from SAH (Sub Arachnoid Haemorrhage) …and was hospitalised. For the first two days I was not aware of what was the issue …why was I admitted …I just knew something is wrong with my head …and have got timely help and will come out of it….but what I saw and could understand was fear in Suyash’s eyes. Though he tried to keep a brave front but I could see right through how scared he was ..how worried he was …and also the other way round …every positive news brought relief on his face …and post my discharge …the care …the concern …the pampering …I felt just out of the world …he has always been so much into his office schedules …but nothing mattered at that time …if he would ask me to walk a bit ..the next moment it would be sit down don’t strain yourself …we always fight on who would open the door in mornings…but now however tired he was, even if he slept very late i was not also aware when he did all that …how did he manage me,office,home seamlessly and again to cut the long story short …it was like falling in love all again .
When you are together for a long time …a regularity …routineness comes in our lives …more than this always kids overtake the attention and time …at times we forget to appreciate …not the best way to experience this…but I am so glad …to go through the bestest emotion of “falling in love “ …all over again
